BESTSELF™ ICEBREAKER | Dreams 09
WHAT'S YOUR GO-TO STRATEGY FOR ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS?
Once I manage to settle on a goal - asking of it all the tough questions: what do I want to accomplish? why do I want this? how will I get it? where do I start? I then do four things:
List: answer the questions write how I’m going to manifest my goal
Calendar: block time and add regular check-ins correlating to my list
Meditate: put out into the universe that which I most want to achieve
And the most important thing of achieving any goal?
I have no attachment to form. As in ZERO. That was one of the hardest things I’ve ever learned in my life. And now that I’ve learned it, I can’t unlearn it and can’t imagine going back to my more transactional, rigid, hyper-focused, myopic way of achieving goals.
How can you have a goal with no attachment to how the goal shows up?
The easiest way to explain is by using a relationship example: The intention is to manifest a partner who has the qualities you need in a person, not a partner who is a particular height, weight, age, profession, colouring, etc. Your ideal partner may show up as a short bald person with a beautiful deep voice, contagious laugh, who runs - for fun. The idea is to stay open to any possibility, not to be rigid in what you imagine your ideal partner to be. Still do all of the things - you can’t simply wish a partner into being - let your friends know you’re looking, sign up for an online matchmaking account, make room in your home for them, and consciously do all you can to raise your vibration and make room in your heart.
Focus on the process, the intention, the manifesting, the character. Avoid being locked into how you think things “should” be - give them space to evolve. (“Should” is a dirty word, I’ve done all I can to banish it from my vocabulary!)
The process is the same for any goal: changing your life circumstance, where you live or work; selling your product; writing your book (ahem); any goal qualifies.
Know that which you are looking for is also looking for you - and what is meant to be yours will not pass you by. It’s a woo rule!